You never know what the second date will bring, because as nice as it is to feel those sparks right away, they aren't always necessarily proof of compatibility. Giphy "Feelings of infatuation fade for everyone, and so I really wish people would stop placing so much emphasis on first date sparks," Chlipala says.
Give the person a chance, but remember there is a limit, and you shouldn't have to be with someone who you feel absolutely no spark with.
Not feeling those love-dovey sparks on the very first date shouldn't be a total have to be with someone who you feel absolutely no spark with. I talked to 12 women who didn't feel a spark when they first met their current I felt really excited for our first date, but I really didn't have any.